{"id":109,"date":"2014-01-25T02:25:24","date_gmt":"2014-01-25T02:25:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/?p=109"},"modified":"2014-01-25T02:25:24","modified_gmt":"2014-01-25T02:25:24","slug":"surviving-being-alone-as-a-widowis-not-easy-but-i-am-doing-it-written-by-cheryl-freier-www-thegraylinghiddentruthpoems-com-and-author-of-the-grayling-hidden-truth-poems-and-the-shepherd-boy-and-t","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/surviving-being-alone-as-a-widowis-not-easy-but-i-am-doing-it-written-by-cheryl-freier-www-thegraylinghiddentruthpoems-com-and-author-of-the-grayling-hidden-truth-poems-and-the-shepherd-boy-and-t\/","title":{"rendered":"Surviving Being Alone As A WidowIs Not Easy, But I am Doing It Written by Cheryl Freier (www.thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com) and author of The Grayling Hidden Truth Poems and The Shepherd Boy And The Sheep Alphabet"},"content":{"rendered":"

There was one grace to all of the tragedy of losing my husband:\u00a0 he was alive for six days after the diagnosis of pancreatic Cancer<\/em>.\u00a0 During that time, we talked, but mostly I listened.\u00a0 He told me he had a blueprint for my life ahead of me.\u00a0 He told me that most of all he wanted me to keep busy and as much as possible.\u00a0 “Remember”, he said, “you have education.\u00a0 You have been trained as a writer of novels.\u00a0 You took many years of art lessons.\u00a0 You can do it!\u00a0 You will be able to take care of yourself”.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I knew that it was going to be difficult for me, but his pep talk has guided me<\/a><\/em> through missing him and loneliness.\u00a0 I finished writing four novels:\u00a0 each novel was a sequel of the first—–together they told the story of my husband, Martin Freier’s life and about all of his achievements, and about his caring nature.\u00a0 He was always a good father, always there when he was needed.\u00a0 One of the books is entitled, “The Day Of The Hidden Truth Poems:\u00a0 In Memoriam To Martin Freier”<\/em>.\u00a0 Most of the poems presented in the book were written by him.\u00a0 And it is through reading his poems that one can gain a glimpse about his thoughts and wishes.\u00a0<\/p>\n

All of Martin’s poems are a memoriam to him.\u00a0 The poems span a lifetime of his reflections.\u00a0 And, yes, there are some poems written about the war.\u00a0 Yes, the war has ended over 70 years, but we must remember the tragedy that happened in Europe during WWII.\u00a0 We must give reverence to the soldiers who fought for European freedom against a devil beast.\u00a0 We must give praise and reverence to the few who survived the war and made a lasting contribution to everyone he came in contact with.\u00a0 Read Martin’s poems and just for a moment think of yourself vicariously as a young boy in Nazi Slovakia.\u00a0 It will do good for you.\u00a0 Cheryl Freier<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There was one grace to all of the tragedy of losing my husband:\u00a0 he was alive for six days after the diagnosis of pancreatic Cancer.\u00a0 During that time, we talked, but mostly I listened.\u00a0 He told me he had a blueprint for my life ahead of me.\u00a0 He told me that most of all he […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[54,102,104,103,105],"tags":[660,108,109,106,107],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8LuB6-1L","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=109"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":112,"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109\/revisions\/112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=109"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=109"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thegraylinghiddentruthpoems.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=109"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}